My Playroom--Sound

I had a really great re-match today with the leather top who needs to work on his bottoming skills. While those experiences are digesting and working their way to the keyboard, I thought I’d get back to my occasional series of posts exploring the playroom. I had pictures of the rim seat taken, but as my camera and computer seem to not be on speaking terms, I’ve decided to concentrate on sound in the playroom.

I do like ambient noise as I fuck. As often as not I have porn playing on my wide screen laptop. We don’t sit and watch porn. But it’s great to hear the grunts, groans and rhythmic fucking sounds from a good fuck flick. I try to match the porn with what’s likely to happen in play. If it’s a piss scene, any of the great Dick Wadd videos add a great aural backup of slurping, splashing and wet bodies slapping together. A leather orgy gets the same on the screen. If fisting is on the menu, you are likely to glance up and see hands working a well greased hole. If it’s a more vanilla scene, then they’re out of luck--I no longer have any vanilla porn.

I certainly have tried music. Anything with a lyric in English is out for me--I find it much too intrusive.. Even instrumentals of songs I know distract me. I do love classical music, but it certainly is not to everyone’s taste. The passion of a Tchaikovsky symphony can be incredible to fuck to--The Nutcracker, not so much. Ravel’s Bolero is the cliché--but it’s damn good…

I find most opera distracting. But actually a Mass or Cantata can be wonderful. A memorable hook up lately, used Bach's Cantatas n. 170, 54 and 35, and Pergolesi's Stabat Mater. Yes, it’s sung, but my Latin is lousy. The mix of choir and soloists works for me. It can conjure up a sacrificial vibe or an initiation feel. Both are things that really get me going and work with so much of how I approach sex play.

In other peoples spaces, I have fucked to New Age and Trance with mixed results. I’ve also heard a number of the tracks recorded by gay men for sex. Some of those really work for me….and some have actually made me laugh. I don’t need a deep bass voice urging me to “Do it. Do it. Do it,” but the rhythmic nature of the tracks is a great match.

So let me open this up. As I fucked today, I would loved to have filled in the aural void.

I’d really like to know what you use? The radio top 40? Silence? If you like any of the gay sex mixes--please give me some artists, or names of recordings I should be looking for.

I’d really like to hear from you.

And I’ll get to work on my top’s first piss up the ass moment….