tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3633230367947296647.post5163526874102120027..comments2024-03-27T21:56:35.063-04:00Comments on From My Side of the Sling: Full Service Top?FelchingPisserhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02458625059974106288noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3633230367947296647.post-72396817206203020672017-01-29T14:06:00.795-05:002017-01-29T14:06:00.795-05:00I certainly understand about fulfilling a partner’...I certainly understand about fulfilling a partner’s fantasy—that is all that scat play would be about for me. Maybe if the people who approached me with the idea were long term partners wanting to try something they had been dreaming about, I would try harder to be there for them. For a casual, first time hook-up—nope.<br /><br />Communication is huge. I wanted so much more from the sounds guy. I think I would still be up for trying sounds again—with the silicone shorter ones—and a lot of verbal help.<br /><br />I like to know what I am doing to not hurt anybody. A man in a bath house sling was the first to ask for my hand. I got in four fingers and was working on my thumb. He reached down and just pulled me into him. I knew I wanted to know more—and at that point in my life I had no one to ask. I deliberately sought out a fisting weekend at a gay resort that advertised that they would be doing some master classes. I listened. I had some hands on experience. And was pronounced a natural—the leader of the group, who’s ass I had just taken, assumed I had to have been a fisting bottom needing to flip....<br />FelchingPisserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02458625059974106288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3633230367947296647.post-79084812102957395692017-01-29T10:43:52.116-05:002017-01-29T10:43:52.116-05:00Wow. I generally look up to you as the man that ha...Wow. I generally look up to you as the man that has done it all but apparently I've done the two on your limit list. Ha! Not trying to make you revisit these at all (love a man that can tell me openly what the line is) but more trying to point to that beautiful moment where a fantasy of a man suddenly becomes more real to you. Dimensions that get fully flushed out and make you even sexier. <br /><br />I'm really surprised he was not vocal. Dangerous stuff as there are worse consequences that navigating that natural resistance like an ass. Been told early on only engage in urethral penetration with someone you have a strong communication channel with. Like, you wouldn't engage in breath play with a complete stranger... I'm like you, generally have to turn away when they are drawing blood but for some reason my curiosity overcame that and I experimented. Sterilized the ball bearing chain (you know, the chain people wear with military dog tags) and stuffed it up my urethra. That was pretty intense. But then came the pain of pissing the lube out that kinda killed it for me. That and I many years later got a urinary tract infection and they say you shouldn't engage after that due to scar tissue and stuff. But anyway, my point is that I've tried it myself as an experiment so I know how it feels but I'm still reluctant to do it on others unless we're both good communicators so it was surprising he was so silent about how far you could go...Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.com