Fornication Weekend Sunday Morning Musings

Timberfell Lodge—July, 2025

 

I didn’t get to the campground until almost noon on Sunday.  I parked in the lot near the site of the massive party on Saturday night.  The first thing I saw was the blow-up unicorn that had been tied to the top of a sling frame.  It had lost most of its air overnight and hung limply from the frame, looking as tired and lifeless as I felt.  It felt good to just sit in my car for a moment with a cup of tea.  (I got enough energy back by nightfall for one last rout.  But I’m saving that story until Friday, so we don’t have three posts back-to-back all about large group sex events.) 

So a few bits and bobs, as my partner use to say…

Books:

I mentioned David-SF’s (David Wichman) book that I’d purchased the day before.   It is The Four Rooms:  An In-queery on Sexual Freedom and Well-Being.  David has worked for years with men who feel sexual shame and inadequacy.  He is the first to say it is not a self-help book so much as a process to finding a way of looking at things--so men can ‘make space for the parts of themselves that may be undiscovered or exiled by guilt’ in order to embrace our whole sexual being.  I am on the last chapter now and finding it fascinating.  He writes just like he talks—I feel like he’s beside me speaking right to me.   

 

I will also be picking up his memoir, Every Grain of Sand.

The Four Rooms is published by ONBrand Books, Nashville, TN.

David on Instagram:  David P Wichman (@davidsworld.me) • Instagram photos and videos

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Allen Silver also has a new book out, Man of Use.  I found a card for it in my goodie bag from the event and asked Ric, the events coordinator, about it.  He had read it and liked it a lot.  Man of Use, to quote right from the card is “The story of a man who discovers his vocation is to be of erotic service to other men.”   I can’t wait to get my copy.

Here is the link to find it in paper, e-book or audible form: Man Of Use

On X:   @AllenSilverxxx

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Last year I listed info for all the content creators I met (or had sex with…) This year, with my arriving late, I really didn’t have dealings with any one other than Jonah Wheeler.

 Jonah Wheeler:  Jonah Wheeler (@ShowOffJonah) / X

He has there a link to all the sites where he posts his video work.

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The last thing I want to mention is a thank you to Ray Dalton.  As we were setting up the slings for the Fornication Party, he thought I should be in the room where the pool tables were.  I was fine with that—until blue lights were hung and turned on.  It was dark.  Almost black. Many men would (and did) love that, but I’m a guy who needs to read the bottom I’m fucking.  I need to see his face.  I need to see the cues and reactions of what I doing to/for him.

I mentioned this to Ray.  This man with a million balls in the air at that moment, instantly understood my issue—and did something about it.  We dragged my sling outside and replaced one of his in the pool room.  And that wasn’t all, as the sun set an hour into the party, Ray arrived with a clip light.  He installed it on the nearest post, making sure it wasn’t aimed right at us, but he wanted to make sure I had the visuals that are so important for how I fuck.  He didn’t have to do any of that.  But he cared.  He listened.  He ‘got’ me.

Thank you, Ray.  It’s one of the many things that make these events so special.

 

 

The link to info on all the upcoming parties:  FORNICATION