Monday, May 25, 2026

History: Finding the Michigan Bathhouse

History:  Finding the Michigan Bathhouse

Early 1990’s.

I knew I needed to find a Michigan bathhouse.  I had heard that the one in Detroit, the one my brother had taken me to in 1977, had closed almost immediately after HIV hit the gay community.  I don’t know when it closed, but it is not listed in my 1991 Damron’s Guide.

What was listed was the Diplomat.  It was (and is) in Grand Rapids.  That meant it was actually closer to me, living on the west side of the state, than anything would have been in Detroit.  I was currently living alone for a couple of months, as Rob had a job in another state.  I decided to go up on a Saturday night.

It was actually quite easy to find and the there was good neighborhood street parking.  I know now that it had opened in 1980.  My fuck bud Jake has mentioned it was a local dairy.  I was told by the 1990’s manager that vacuum cleaners were repaired and sold there.  Maybe both are true.  By the time I walked in for the first time, it was fairly dreary after a dozen years of operation.  There was a smoking area with porn on the television in a lounge downstairs.  There was a hallway of single rooms past that.  Around a bend was the locker room and larger rooms to rent.  Showers and the sauna were also downstairs, off the single room hallway.  And a staircase that went up to what looked like a black hole.  A box hung on the wall at the base of the stairs with free condoms.

I got a single room.  I remember it being very cheap—and it was good for 12 hours!  I found my room and stripped.  I had already figured out that a jock could become my utility belt.  I could have a small bottle of lube, Magnums and, back then, a bottle of poppers all stuffed in the waistband.  Jake remembers meeting me in boots—but I didn’t wear them in a bathhouse this early.  (That happened later in the decade after almost stepping on a used syringe left in the carpeted hallways of Man’s Country.  The boots, once added, and jock instantly became my play uniform—with the towel over my shoulder, showing off my well stuffed jock.)  But that first night, I am sure I had that towel tightly wrapped around my thin middle.  After all, that’s what all the other men were doing…

I went into the lounge.  One man was stroking to the porn.  A few others were smoking and chatting.  I sat for a while.  The men were friendly and said hello, but it was obvious that these guys had known each other for a long time.  Eventually, I made the rounds to see if there were any open doors.  There was one, with a guy on all fours, but I was not ready to go in and fuck.  I wanted to see what was upstairs.

First, I went into the sauna—which was right at the bottom of the staircase.  I sat alone, enjoying the heat.  But I could hear people on the staircase as they went up or down.  Finally, I stood up, went out and started up the stairs.  It was dark.  There was a room right at the top.  It held a barber’s chair and a sofa that had seen better days.  At the back of this landing, there were rooms to the right and left.  I went to the right.  It was the orgy room with nothing but a stained mattress tossed on the floor.  There were easily six to eight men dogpiled on it.  The action was mostly oral at that moment, but for one bear of a man fucking a skinny college kid.  I was both petrified and totally aroused.  My cock tried to get hard under the fabric of the jock.  I saw used condoms on the floor—but the guy currently fucking was doing it raw.  That made me panic just a little.

I moved slowly away and went into the other alcove off the main room.  Another mattress—and a man was sleeping on it.  But this side was larger—and there was a sling in the opposite corner.  I stepped closer.  The sling was occupied.  A young man with a beautifully rounded ass.  I came even closer.

“Fuck me,” the guy mumbled.  “Need a condom?”

“I have my Magnums.”

“Fuck, yes, a big boy.   Get that thing on…”

This was just what I needed.  I lubed up, rolled it on and sank into his wet hole.  The guy was really very good looking, right around my age (mid-30’s) and knew how to take dick.  He treated me to a great fuck—both of us using everything in our skill sets.

“I would love you to shoot on my stomach,” he panted as he saw I was getting close.  Soon enough, I pulled out, ripped off the condom and covered him.  He swiped a finger through my cum and tasted it when he thought I wasn’t looking. 

We talked a little.  I found out he was often here—and was the boyfriend of the manager.  Both of them became good friends and regular fuck buds.

I went down to my room.  I slept and awoke around 3 am.  I went upstairs and found a new man in the sling.  He didn’t care about condoms, but I used mine.  I fucked him hard and ripped off the latex to cover his cock and balls with my load.

I slept and woke up just as my twelve-hour session was ending.  I went out for breakfast feeling ravenous…

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After my first trip there, I was going at least once a month, often every weekend.  Guys respected my limits and put up with the latex to get my cock.  Beyond Jake and the young man already mentioned, I made a number of good fuck bud/friends there.  We’d fuck until the wee hours, sleep and go out to eat together.  There were always new men—and there was a seminary close by and those clean-cut young men were pigs on that mattress.

I met Jake, my fisting bud, fairly early after my becoming a regular.  Fisting was another great way for me to have intense sex and stay safe.  I added latex gloves to the list of things in my jock’s waistband.  Jake was there often.  He loved the fuck I would give him, but he lived for my hand.  I watched other men use him and began to understand that I had some natural technique that other men just didn’t possess when they used their hands on an ass.  I can’t begin to compute how much sex Jake and I must have had in those years—as he was there almost as much as I was.

I mostly used the sling, but I also was now very comfortable going in and fucking a guy on all fours who’d left his door ajar.  I really had my pick of the guys.

I was pretty much all about ass up at the Diplomat.  In the early 90’s the jury was out about how safe oral sex was, or even if it was.  I saved my mouth for my partner.   I was really proud of the fact I could tell Rob that I had played safely all the time he was gone.  I just didn’t tell him how often I actually went…

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Jake has written up our first meet.  I posted it a long time ago.  Here is how he remembered things:  Guest Writer: How Jake Met FelchingPisser

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