Friday, November 23, 2018

House Party / House Rules


Northwest Indiana—October, 2018

It was time for the house party held in Indiana.   This would be the last one until next spring when the host returns from his winter residence.  I wanted to make sure I got there.

There are men all over the house.  I strip down and stuff my clothes in my bag.  I wander.   All over the house.  The only men I find having sex is Miguel and Ryan, just outside the dark room.  Everyone else is smoking on the back porch, watching porn, eating in the kitchen or (mostly) drinking at the bar.  Ryan, my friend and former blogger is fucking every inch of his erection up Miguel.  I stick my hardening dick into Miguel’s mouth.

By the time I’m fucking Miguel’s ass, with Ryan in his mouth, there are more men around.  Some regulars and some new ones.  Another Latino watches us spit roast Miguel–then he reaches down and literally pulls my dick out of Miguel’s ass and tries to put it into his own butt.   I stop him and go wander.

I find the Black Cub in the upstairs bedroom.  He is sucking another man, but waves me over to eat and fuck his ass as he continues the deep throat treatment.  It’s hot—and we all enjoy it.

*****

A sexy Italian is lying on the bed in the dark room.  He’s jerking a nice uncut 7 incher.  I kneel and he lets me swallow him down.  He bucks up into my mouth.  I jerk, happy to be doing something other than fuck.  He starts to groan.  I know he’s going to blow…and the Latino from before pulls the dick out of my mouth and tries to go down on him.  The Italian back hands him but he doesn’t get  the message until the Italian rips his dick out of the Latino’s mouth and tells him to get lost.  But we can’t pick up where we left off—they both leave…and I decide on the real topic of this post.

House Party Rules

I know other writers have done this (but years ago now.)  There were three glaring things that happened at this group session, I want to address.  And then a few more besides….

     *Wait to be asked to be included in an ongoing scene.  It may not be with words.  All my Cub had to do was see me and beckon for me to join them.  Ryan simply directed Miguel’s head towards my crotch as a way of saying ‘join us.’  How often have I said “You want this hole?” to a man standing near us as I plow some guy?  Let your body language show you find what is happening hot—jerk your dick for us or twist your nipples—and more often than not you will be added.  Don’t assume!

      * If you think there is a chance, any chance at all, you are going to bottom—clean out.  Do I really have to add anything else?  Of course accidents can happen, but I have had men there who have obviously not done anything.  Nothing kills the party vibe faster.

      *Don’t latch onto one guy all night.  This was really in evidence at this group.  A young hottie willing played a little with an older man.  And suddenly the older guy was by his side for two straight hours.  At first the young guy was flattered, but he moved away to find a new partner.  The older guy followed and interrupted the scene that was about to happen.  This time the hottie was resigned and moved away.  The next time it happened, he was annoyed.  Everyone in the house saw what was happening (and commented on it!) except for the besotted older guy.  Learn to read body language, folks.  I do give points to the hottie for trying to keep things friendly and not berating him.

      *Clean up after yourself.  If you shoot all over any of the surfaces you are playing on, take the time to wipe it down with the paper towels that are everywhere in his man’s house.  If it’s something worse, get that sheet off the bed.  And tell the host.

      *Put down your phone.  Good grief…there are naked men all around you and you are thumbing through a hook up site?  And no pictures without permission.

Well, that’s a good start.  I’m sure there are more.

And for the record, I chose Miguel for my load, since he’d donated his ass to Don and Reid and myself the week before.

Actually use the comment section for other things I should have included in my rules for good group sex. 

6 comments:

  1. Great rules! Another thing that annoys me at these parties is there's usually a non-sex area, like the kitchen or a hot tub, where guys can go to reload and relax, catch up with buddies, etc... and then guys try to get sex going in these areas.

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    1. That's a great one. I would also add--Don't bring your down time chat into the sex areas. I have seen men lose their erections as two guys on the fringes of the scene are talking much too loud about buying a condo or about their imported, expensive shoes.

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  2. I've been to too many small get togethers where someone who seems uninterested in playing occupies a prime spot and glowers at everyone. If it's a big venue or has a number of rooms, there might be room for a lurker. And even if you're going to lurk, get your dick hard and play with it. At least it will look like you're there for the action.

    Paul, PS

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    1. Thanks, Paul--and very true.

      Another rule I thought of after the fact is: Pay attention to your host. If he’s a bottom, make sure you fuck him in the course of the evening. If he’s a top, suck his dick or include him in fucking another guy. If, like this particular host who only acts as a voyeur, be a good guest and thank him for all the trouble he’s gone to putting his gathering together. This host doesn’t play but he spends hours online to get the guys there, prep the house and cook—I always go out of my way to make sure he knows we appreciate it.

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  3. It sounds like common courtesy to me, but apparently it's not as common as we'd like it to be. I'll add one as well. If you are new to the group either ask the host or another guy you might know if there is anything special you need to know about rules, guidelines, your role and other guys' preferences or quirks before things get started. Joe doesn't like anyone to touch his nipples or Mark doesn't like anyone even near his ass...He's a strict top. A little "heads up" can go a long way towards making you a regular part of the group.

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