Calling All Lovers of Group Sex

A couple of day ago I got a message from a blog reader:

 

“Hey, my buddy used to host occasional sex parties in his house, until they got too much for him to handle, guys weren't respecting his stuff or his private, off-limits space, guys were smoking (yuk), making a mess in his kitchen, etc... So awhile back he stopped hosting them. 

Now, he is thinking of restarting them, and me who loves a house party, is trying to help him by writing some official rules and making every invitee (or guy that requests an invite, or any guy who just shows up) read and acknowledge.”

He also wondered if I knew of someone else’s rules.  I had him look at the post I did on the subject.  Here is the link.  I got some great suggestions for additional rules when I posted it.  The reader asked if I would run his rules and have you sex party aficionados see what else needs to be added.

 

Thank you in advance.  Please let him know what you think.  If you were going:  Would you like to know something like this?  Does it put you off?  Let’s discuss in the comments.

Here is the document he sent:

HOUSE RULES

1.      A donation is voluntary, but please consider making one to your host in consideration of him opening up his house for your enjoyment.  Please do not arrive before the announced time (unless you are bottoming and want to do a “final check” – see Rule 9). The doors will be “open” for arrivals no later than 90 minutes after the announced start time.

2.      There is a mandatory clothes check, but you may wear a jockstrap, sexy underwear, harness or other fetish gear during the party. There will be a Host’s assistant who will help you bag your clothes in the cubby holes by the entrance. We recommend you wear sneakers or boots during the party. Do not bring valuables, cash (other than your donation), or credit cards to the party. Beverages and snacks are provided in the kitchen. We are not responsible for your lost items.

3.      The house party has SEX AREAS and NON-SEX AREAS. Sex Areas include:

a.       Living Room

b.      All bedrooms (except any room that is marked as NO ENTRY or PRIVATE)

c.       Den

d.      Downstairs Bonus Room

4.      NON-SEX AREAS include:

a.       Kitchen

b.      Backyard (please keep conversations quiet – we have neighbors)

c.       Bathrooms

d.      Hot Tub

5.      Slings (3) rimseats (2), various couches and beds are set up for your use in the Sex Areas. Do not bring your own equipment or toys unless you have cleared it with the Host prior to the party. You may bring your own poppers, but we are not helping you find them after you lose them.

6.      The Non-Sex Areas may be utilized by you to relax and recharge, chat with friends – it is not for sexual activity.

7.      You may smoke or vape in the Backyard only (use an ashtray). There is no smoking or vaping in the house at all.

8.      Absolutely no pictures or video of the party may be taken, either in the Sex Area or the Non-Sex Area. You will be asked to leave immediately if you are taking pictures. Leave your phone with your clothes at the door!

9.      BOTTOMS: Although bottoms may arrive up to 30 minutes before the announced time of the party for a “final check”, your main prep for bottoming should be done BEFORE you arrive. You may “touch-up” as needed during the party but be aware there are only 2 bathrooms for many men.

10.  Non-Sex related conversations are for the non-sex areas. Do not bring your work, family, financial problems, political discussions, health statuses, etc… into the Sex Area. Do not disparage or make negative comments or gossip about other guests. You will be asked to leave if you do.

11.  The purpose of this party is to enjoy yourself, meet new men, have good sex – for this purpose, when you are in the Sex Area, you should be engaged in sexual activity (touching, kissing, sucking, fucking, rimming) Do not stare or lurk. If you feel you need an introduction, see the Host or the Host’s helper and we will start the ball rolling.

12.  Some of my parties will feature an oral bottom who will “greet” every guest upon his arrival. Once the doors have closed to new arrivals, the oral bottom will circulate throughout the sex area, and will no longer be oral-only.

13.  Some of my parties will be what I call “Armband Parties,” and this will be featured in the invitation email. At arrival, everyone must choose between a yellow, green or red armband: (you may change armbands during the party)

a.       GREEN ARMBAND: TOTAL BOTTOM. When you are in the sex area and you have a green armband, any Yellow Armband (Versatile) or Red Armband (Total Top) can top you and/or breed you as he sees fit. You have the chance to decline or discontinue the encounter by informing him and leaving the sex area.

b.      YELLOW ARMBAND: VERSATILE. When you are in the Sex Area and you have a yellow armband, you may top and/or breed any other yellow armband, or any green armband as you see fit. You may also be topped and/or bred by any other yellow armband or any red armband as he sees fit. To decline or revoke your consent for this encounter, you would inform him and leave the sex area.

c.       RED ARMBAND: When you are in the Sex Area and you have a red armband, you may top and breed any Green or Yellow Armband as you see fit. You may not top another red armband while you are wearing a red armband (oral or rimming OK).

d.      Respect consent and if someone doesn’t want the encounter or wants to stop the encounter, he will inform you and leave the sex area.

14.  All my house parties are BAREBACK only – Condoms are never permitted. If we see you using a condom, you will be asked to leave. You should be aware of your status and if you have any reason to believe you have an active STI, please do not come to the party until medically cleared to engage in sexual activity again.

15.  If we feel you are being disruptive, argumentative, not respecting the rule regarding sex area vs. non-sex area, or not respecting any other guests consent or non-consent, we will ask you to leave and you will not be invited back.